I actually quite like your dress, it looks good on you and you have made good job in sewing it up....but, I do tend to think we criticise ourselves far too harshly, when we have made something that we ourselves, aren't truly happy with..
...so I understand what you are saying, (I also do this) but to me.. it looks really good....and well done on continuing with it, even though you had issues with the fabric and fit. To do that is sometimes is an accomplishment in its'self. You have however, answered one of the queries I have when buying magazines, simply for their patterns...on how they will fit....and how much ease they have....I usually end up not buying a magazine or pattern due to the fact the my upper part of my body is considerably 'larger' than the rest of me...and knowing that this particular patter sews up 'BIGGER' to my ears a good thing....I have this pattern and will probably now take the plunge (at some point) to make it, however I will also take heed of the things you stipulate in your blog.....and make a toile....